Secrets Of Adulthood

This is a concept I borrowed from my new found bible (The Happiness Project) but I found it such a fun exercise that I thought I'd share it with you. Everyone's secrets are probably different, but it was good to see that mine actually matched up with Gretchen's quite a bit. Although, hers were worded much more eloquently. It was helpful to hear what an older accomplished adult wished she had known all along. I'd love to hear your secrets! 

(Me as baby)

1. People don't notice your mistakes as much as you do

2. It's better to be good at a one thing, then mediocre at 5 things

3. Cross that bridge when you come to it

4. Bring a sweater

5. Don't let the perfect be the enemy of the good

6. People aren't absolute versions of their actions. Someone who said something rude once, may not be a rude person.

7. You don't have to be friends with everyone, but you do need to be nice to everyone

8. Never talk when your mad. Wait at least an hour until you calm down

9. Let it go

10. What's fun for others, may not be fun for you

 (Me all grown up - The difference is uncanny right?)

Footnote: As mentioned above some, not all, of these Secrets came from the book The Happiness Project, you can read Gretchen's complete list here: http://www.happiness-project.com/

Side note: Oh look! A footnote! Also known as crediting people correctly when you borrow their work. What a unique concept.